Showing posts with label morality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label morality. Show all posts

Saturday, August 25, 2012

Chicken or Egg?

I've had a question on my mind for some time now and it has been irritating me to the point that I feel the need to ask it of you, my audience, and see if we might come up with an answer. The question is a bit more complex than it seems at first blush, so bear with my explanation. My query comes as a two-part problem. It makes an assumption first, then asks an either/or question.

The assumption is (and there may be some disagreement here, so if you do please speak up) that multimedia in general (e.g. TV, movies, books, music, news, Internet) are as a whole moving in a downhill direction in regards to morally upright content. Acceptance of perverse moral ideas appears to be an ever-widening phenomenon in multimedia, as is the normalizing of aberrant behavior. That is my assumption. The question, then, is this: Is "the media" the cause of this downward slide in morality and decency, or is the media merely the cultural expression of already extant moral degradation and change? In effect, does the media simply report on the change?

I will offer my humble opinion that this is not only a perfectly valid, reasonable question to ask, but also an entirely necessary one. Where does this world of multimedia fit into our lives or is there no place for it? Does the media shape the culture, or is it the other way around? Or, put differently, is the media we ingest daily the soul of our culture or its body, the animating principle of our society or simply its proper expression? This whole issue is so fiendishly tangled together and I would like to have some fun untangling it.

As a good example, I would like to throw out there three TV shows that illustrate my point. One is an already-popular and critically-recognized show called Modern Family, the second is a show to be released this fall I think, called New Normal, and the third is an FBI crime show called White Collar. The first two are comedies that prominently feature gay couples attempting to raise children, surrounded by mostly understanding parents and relatives who may raise an eyebrow once in a while at the homosexuality at play in their midst, but who otherwise could care less. The third show involves a secondary character who is engaged to her lesbian lover. Now I believe homosexuality to be a grave moral problem, but regardless of your beliefs concerning homosexuality, it is hard not to see a connection here between the content of these shows and the current vigorous lobbying by homosexual groups nationwide for legal and societal acceptance of their particular orientation. These groups seek, in effect, to normalize the status of homosexuals in America. So do these shows then simply reflect this particular change in American public thinking, or are they the actual driver?

It is tough to say.

The news networks are famously known for being, at least historically, major drivers of public opinion. So if the presentation of the news can change opinions about differing subjects, then why not TV shows and movies? Do they not shape us in subtle ways and guide part of our decisions and actions?

But then, on the other hand, the major networks and studios are driven by a bottom line goal. Their goal is to make money, and lots of it. To make lots of money, one needs to be in tune with what the public wants to see and hear and then provide it en masse. So these companies must simply be responding to perceived public demand for this sort of content, living dangerously on the "cutting edge of societal evolution," to steal a line from Rush Limbaugh. Right?

Or, do these two things go hand in hand? Was the proverbial chicken first or the egg?

Feel free to leave your thoughts below!


Image by LGPER, via Wikipedia.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Morality Boogers

I have two sons. The younger boy is a year and a half and has only begun forming semi-coherent verbalizations in order to get what he wants. The older one is an entirely different story. He has discovered that speech is a powerful weapon, one of causing both joy and extraordinary annoyance in his parents. (I love him, to be sure, don't get me wrong, but the power of speech can be and is regularly abused by three-year-olds.)

Anyways, the older boy has recently begun a ritual that begins as soon as I get home, and continues pretty much until he goes to bed. It goes something like this:

ME: Hi, Ethan!
THE BOY (otherwise known as Ethan): Hi, Daddy!
ME: How're you dooooing?
ETHAN: How're you dooooing? Ha ha ha!
ME: Okay...! So, I need something to eat.
ETHAN: Okay, Daddy.

Pause...

ETHAN: Daddy, what're you doing?
ME: I'm making myself a sandwich.
ETHAN: Oh.

Pause...

ETHAN: Daddy, what're you doing?
ME: I'm walking towards the table with my sandwich.
ETHAN: Daddy, what're you doing?
ME: I'm sitting down.
ETHAN: Daddy, what're you doing?
ME: Buying stock in earplugs. What are you doing?
ETHAN: Daddy, what're you doing?

This routine continues for as long as it holds his interest, which means from the moment I come through the door to the moment I close his bedroom door and say goodnight. It can be at times amusing, at other times hair-ripping-out-of-head obnoxious. But the fact remains that his need to know my status at all times is a powerful urge in his inner being. I don't know where he learned the phrase, but he learned it and has put it to majorly good use (in his mind, anyways.)

His pestering got me to thinking, however. I probably overthink at least one thing a day but this was probably a helpful overthink. My son's insistent demands to know what I was doing every minute made me think that in a way that is how we should live our lives. Every second, every minute, every hour counts. How often do we cruise through the day thinking of how awesome tomorrow is going to be and yet wanting to just make it through the current day?

I got to bemusedly sit through work today wondering how the heck I would answer my son if he was sitting next to me the whole time saying, "Daddy, what're you doing?" What would I have told him? "Well, son, I am staring off into space while the next piece of product goes down the assembly line, at which point I will stand up, put a new piece in and then sit down and stare off into space again." Could I honestly tell him that I was engaging my mind and improving my soul? Or would I have to tell him that I was just going through the motions with a switched-off brain?

I would hope it was the former, but I can't honestly say it was. I was working hard doing what I was supposed to do, but I was switched off, cruising. I see now with my son's help that cruising through the day is to a certain degree immoral. Every moment should be infused with something good, not a bland void. My three-year-old, snotty, overly-talkative (and ridiculously cute) son made me see that. I owe my kid a debt of gratitude for being a reminder to me of what really is important. So thank you, my little morality booger, for opening my eyes. I mean seriously, my son sometimes refuses to eat because he thinks he will miss something important. That's how hard he lives his little life.

And speaking of kids, I am way too full of kiddie fish sticks right now for my own good. I think now would be a good time to go to bed. Good night.